White guy dating black girl? I'm 21 years old, white, and I work with a girl that's 23 and black. She is so my type it's not even funny. We flirt constantly, we tease each other all the time, I've purposely touched her butt several times and she obviously liked it. But the icing on the cake, is one time, she told me she could see the outline of my balls (I know this is getting a little graphic.